At A Big Slice we talk a lot about being a great host. We research recipes and wines. create craft projects and provide background information that can make you confident and relaxed. But hosting is only half of the story.
Last week we were sitting around talking about people that we met at parties and began to recognize some reoccurring gaffes made by the guests. Some were completely innocent, and some could have been avoided with t quick lesson thoughtfulness.
1. Don't greet other guests with "And who might you be?" This sounds very pretentious, almost as if you expect the answer to fall short of your expectations, no matter what.
2. Don't greet other guests with "What do you do?" Yes, we agree that often someone occupation is fascinating, and there is always the opportunity to make a connection. But a better ice breaker might be, "Hi, my name is Ted Field, how did you meet our host?"
3. Leave your ego on the door step. Think of the party as a gift that was lovingly prepared with you in mind. Of the host is a bundle of nerves, and your criticism is not going to help.
4. Be a good listener. If you want to be the most popular person in a room, just listen.
5. Ask if you can help clean up. Especially is the party is breaking up rather late, help the host out so they can get some much needed rest.
6. Thank the host as you leave and extend an invitation to your house for the next get together.
Have fun and don't be afraid to show it!
Ted
Life's a Banquet, Grab A Big Slice
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