We Miss You, Princess Diana

Isn't it interesting that if you are shy, or humble, people mistake that for weakness. When you aren't tooting your own horn constantly, and actually put others before yourself with kindness and generosity, you are seen as stupid.
I took a Myers Briggs Personality Test for work several years ago. The premise was that we would recognize the different types and create a more responsive workplace. As it turned out (no surprise to me) I was an introvert. I thought, "How refreshing. A company that will work with me on my strengths." Boy, was I wrong. All they wanted to do was to get me out of my shell. Force me into uncomfortable situations because I needed to "grow". Why is it that introverts need to grow, yet nobody tells the extroverts to shut the hell up?!?
Because the only ones left to tell them to shut up are the introverts... and we are far too nice.
As I have gotten older I have come to realize something. That strength lies with the introverts. We don't need constant propping, or reinforcement, or praise that those insecure extroverts do. When people are tooting their own horn, I long for a mute button.
Now after that tirade, this is the reason I loved Diana. The slight awkwardness, the shy head tilt I found utterly charming. But she got the job done, with compassion and kindness. She was a soft melody - and no tooting!
Now what do we have? The dissonant tunes coming from the tubas of people like Paris and Lindsey. I miss you, Diana. Wish you were here.
To read the entire text of Harry's touching eulogy, click here.






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